Execellent points, Ida!
I, too, fell for the concept of helping others, saving others, by sharing my personal discoveries along the way, but soon realized, it's not what they need and they aren't even asking. I returned to walking my own path and seldom shared unless it was appropriate.
I recall being in a small Course in Miracles group where one participant repeatedly stated she was a Reiki Master, in a self important tone, not realizing that all of us were. Nobody said anything, but I remember thinking, I'm so glad that's not me.